Does being good to everybody matters?


If you always feel like that you should be nice to everybody no matter what.. You might be always looking to please others… you are struggling to make yourself happy as well as others. But it isn’t possible... you can work hard to make others happy but they will not be happy at all.

 

I have always been that person who always remains neutral and positive to everyone. If you talk to me in a pleasant way, ill return the same smile but if you aren’t behaving well, ill remain positive and won't behave in a manner to hurt you.

Most of my buddies say, that this isn’t a good attitude but this has become part of my personality. And I don’t want to change it. You can be good or bad but reacting to others in the same tone doesn’t build your personality. If you get hurt by others behaviour then you aren’t making any changes with your life as well as your mental health.






You have to ignore the most negative people in your life to reach your desired goal. And they can be anybody, either from your friend’s zone or relatives or anybody you know.

If somebody isn’t good with you, don’t waste your time making them happy. Leave them behind and go for your road to success. But don’t ever react to their behaviour.

Because your life is too short to waste. Do something productive in life.


Leave them behind




The one who is always annoying you, criticizing all your work isn’t the good choice to put all your life under their rules.

Leave them behind and do something for you and your life.

My friends say that I should react, I shouldn’t keep silent at others behaviour.. and the only answer to this is that

“I don’t have enough time to put all my energies into these stupidities”.

I have to achieve a lot and I have a lot to struggle to make something for my life as well as hereafter.



Change your thoughts


And everybody should be like this. Always happy, not criticizing others, not discouraging others and this will make a happy society which will lead to the happiest and peaceful world. And trust me, this will always help you to be happy alone. Focus on the best things. Challenging situations and obstacles are a part of everyone’s life. ... Spend time with the most positive people in your circle. Have something to look forward to after work rather than chatting with someone who isn’t beneficial for you and your goals...

And that’s it,…. You'll feel more productive and happy.

 

 

 

 

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